Showing posts with label Family History. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family History. Show all posts

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Christmas Past...

Yes... that's me above.  As you can see, from my plaid pants, it was the early 1970's. The photos below were taken a year or two before my birth... mid 1960's.  My parents and sisters lived in the fictional town of Stepford, Connecticut.



My parents did not live to meet my son. I wonder what they would think about Brase and my family.  The one thing I do know... they would both be delighted to have a grandson.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Grandparent's Day

Granny Olive and Brase

My Grandmother Polly had an enormous apricot tree in her garden. The branches reached far beyond twenty four feet in circumference. It reached so high that the fruit at the top kept the bird’s bellies full all summer. I still remember sitting under that mammoth tree on hot summer days gobbling apricots. It was an amazing sight as you sat watching the leaves flickering in the breeze. In addition, you had to be tiny to maneuver between the branches that anchored the ancient prunus armeniaca. It was a sanctuary for me and my Grandmother’s other thirteen grandchildren.

I have not laid my eyes on that amazing old tree in almost thirty years. I truly doubt it still exists as it was older than Methuselah. The life I also remember, inside the cocoon of branches, has long vanished. My family has been spread apart by death, distance, differences and our evolving lives.

Jose' and I have few leaves remaining on our family trees. Most of the branches are inscribed with the word... died. This is why we are so very grateful to the collective group of friends that act as family. It is through their efforts that Brase gets to experience the joys of Grandparent's Day. Our friends love him unconditionally. I am thankful to all of our friends that act as grandparents and participate in Brase's life.

The words of the ancient great tragedian Euripides speaks volumes, “One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives.”

Monday, May 23, 2011

7,300 Days...












Happy Anniversary
Here's to another 20 years!

Monday, May 16, 2011

Thank my lucky stars..


My life was forever altered by adoption. I am grateful to my birthmother for the life she gave me. I am thankful to my adoptive parents for the lessons they taught me. I am indebted to my son's Mother for the child she bestowed upon me. Today is my birthday and I praise the power of adoption. It has molded and guided my entire life.

Brandon's Adoptive Parents
1968

Brandon Birthmother
1996

December 2010
Brase's Family
2009

Saturday, April 23, 2011

Easter Past...

My Mother and Father with two of my sisters
1957

Brandon
(fending off the paparazzi)
1970

Brandon
(on the catwalk)
1970

Friday, April 15, 2011

Jeanie

Wanda Jean

Jeanie and Bonita
Baby Shower 1955

My Mother and Jeanie were childhood friends.  I think they met in the 2nd grade and maintained a lifelong friendship.  They were married within months of each other and raised families side by side. 

Bob and Jeanie 

My Father and Bob, Jeanie's husband, were also childhood friends.  They each had big personalities and shared many adventures together. Jeanie is the sole survivor of the foursome.

Clint and Bonita
(my parents)

My parents did not live to know my son.  It thrills me that Jeanie can participate in Brase's life and look upon his many milestones. 

Jeanie and Brase
March 2011

Jeanie and Brase
March 2010

Jeanie and Brandon
April 1996

I have known Jeanie my entire life.  She has been a second Mother to me.  She greatly helped mold me into the person I am today.

Jeanie
having fun around 1973

One of my fondest childhood memories is swimming in Jeanie's cement goldfish pond.  Jeanie and I had many fun times together. 

Jeanie, Brandon and Robert
(I did not wear glasses in 1974)

Jeanie
1984

Sunday, April 10, 2011

We can never go back...

Brandon and Jose'
June 1991

This picture was taken in the Dallas West End Market about a month after Jose' and I met.  The Market was a touristy place full of souvenirs and candy. FYI... Jose lived in Dallas during the first year of our relationship. 

Last month we visited Dallas with Brase.  My goal was to take an identical picture with Brase included in the frame.  We packed similar clothes... minus the shorts.  To our shock the market was closed.  It's good to know our relationship has endured.